gender question, sociology homework help

 Individual gender is a very private affair and we present our self to the world often giving clues of specific gendered membership. For example a female might wear skirts, high heels or use lipstick. How did the former olympic male champion Bruce Jenner present his new gender acquiition to the media and world?

  We are taught as infants specific gendered behaviors and looks. For example we handle boy babies rougher than girl babies. Mothers let boy babies cry longer than girl babies in general. At knidergarten girls wear pink  and boys often blue or green so we attach color to gender in American Society. What other ways do we define gender via presentation of self?